Mr. M. let me know that he would never try to be intimate with the women who sleeps in his bed at night and helps him throughout the day because he has never cheated on his wife.
Mrs. M., his wife of over 60 years, is his 24/7 caregiver.
As his dementia became more advanced, Mr. M. started to think that Mrs. M. is just a women who is there to help him. He's not sure what happened to his wife.
Mrs. M. gets a little teary eyed talking about it but she also realizes he was always good to her and never gave her any reason to think he was being unfaithful. In some ways he has more than confirmed that he has always been a "good man."